Believe it, every thing in this world happens for a reason. Doesn’t matter that our brain is too puny to grasp that concept. When people say the damndest thing, we can get pissed and later we realized….hey, at least now we know that the person is well…anything from a loser, a douche bag.. or a jacka$&. Choose your noun, as you please. Read between the lines and you can sense what kind of mood i am in. If i am wearing a mood ring, it will be black.
Today’s lengthy whatsapp session affirmed my suspicion that he blames me for where he is now. Thanks to my expertise in translating verbal bs, i am right to suspect that he felt entitled to make the mistakes he made. In simple non-bs language, he told me for the umpteenth time ‘yes, i deserve this but it is because of who you are that things end up this way ‘. Honestly, i think an apology should be an absolute thing. Either you are sorry or you are not. I have no problem apologizing and forgiving him actually, but please be an adult and take full responsibility for your actions. The blaming game is over because i am not losing and you are not winning either.
In conclusion, i think sometimes people say too much when it is too late. Words can cut so deep and yet have no effect whatsoever under different circumstances.